How Unexpressed Anger Keeps Women Underpaid (and What to Do About It)

Most of us were taught that talking about money is impolite — and that getting angry about it makes us “ungrateful.”

So we lower our prices, overdeliver, and quietly swallow the resentment that builds every time we say “it’s fine.”

But that quiet anger doesn’t disappear. It becomes an energy leak — one that shows up in your pricing, your client boundaries, and the way money moves through your life.

You can’t build wealth on resentment.

Every time you undercharge to keep the peace, you create an invisible debt inside yourself — the cost of unspoken truth.

Being “nice” about money feels safer than being clear, but it’s actually what keeps most women underpaid. We’ve been conditioned to prioritize harmony over honesty, to make others comfortable even when it drains us.

That’s why unexpressed anger is more than emotion — it’s feedback. It’s your body’s way of saying, “This exchange isn’t clean.”

Ignoring that signal keeps you in energetic deficit. Listening to it brings you back into alignment.

If you want to start healing your relationship with money, here’s a simple ritual you can try:

Light a candle.
Write down the price you usually charge.
Then double it.

Notice what happens in your body — the guilt, the tightening, the hesitation.

That’s where your conditioning lives. You don’t have to raise your prices immediately. Just breathe until your nervous system relaxes around that new number.

That’s the first step in teaching your energy that safety and worth can coexist.

Anger doesn’t make you greedy; it makes you clear. It reveals where you’ve been overgiving, overworking, or underreceiving.

Clean exchange is what allows money to flow without guilt or resentment. When your giving and receiving finally match, your income starts reflecting truth — not tension.

That’s what I mean by wealth coherence: energy, effort, and income moving in honest proportion.

Your price is more than a number — it’s a declaration of self-trust. When you stop apologizing for wanting balance, your field steadies. When you let yourself feel anger without shame, your boundaries strengthen.

And when your boundaries strengthen, your wealth expands.

This is how self-permission becomes power: You stop performing grace, and start living reciprocity.

Unexpressed anger keeps you underpaid because it keeps you silent. When you start honoring what you feel, you make space for clean, coherent wealth to move toward you.

If you’re ready to start recalibrating your energy, join my free ceremony "You Don’t Need to Protect Your Energy, You Need to Reclaim It"

It’s a short, guided reset to help you call your energy back from overgiving and step into honest, balanced exchange.